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Empower yourself for everyday life.

Master the art of verbal self-defense with realistic, high-stakes roleplay. Calm the chaos before conflict ever begins.

De-Escalate

Train Your Voice Like a Muscle

De-Escalate transforms how we prepare for conflict—by mastering the conversation before it escalates. Train in safe, simulated verbal confrontations to sharpen your self-control, tactical empathy, and verbal boundary-setting.

Real-World Conflict Scenarios

Face off against aggressive AI personalities based on real-life situations—street confrontations, heated bar arguments, or public provocations. Each interaction challenges your composure, voice control, and presence.

Performance-Based Feedback

After each conversation, get tailored analysis of your tone, choice of words, and emotional regulation. Learn what calmed the situation—and what escalated it—so you build instincts grounded in experience.

Train Anywhere, Any Time

Fit short, high-impact sessions into your routine. Whether you're a martial artist, a security guard, or just want to feel safer on the street, De-Escalate helps sharpen your voice as your first line of defense.

Who De-Escalate is Built For

De-Escalate is a supplemental tool for anyone serious about self-defense, security, or handling heated situations with control and skill.

Self-Defense Students

Learn that the best fight is the one you avoid. Build your de-escalation muscle alongside your physical training so you're ready to resolve tension before it explodes.

Instructors & Martial Arts Academies

Integrate verbal training into your curriculum. Use De-Escalate to offer students complete, scenario-based practice that bridges the gap between sparring and real-life danger.

Security & Hospitality Professionals

Stay composed under verbal attack. Practice staying in control when tensions rise, and turn potential altercations into defused situations without ever lifting a finger.

Why Verbal Skills Are Vital

Real self-defense is 90% mindset, awareness, and presence. De-Escalate builds your confidence in the moments that matter most.

Prevent Fights Before They Start

Most real-world altercations start with words. With regular practice, you'll develop a calm, commanding presence that diffuses tension before violence ever occurs.

Safe Space to Practice Dangerous Scenarios

Confront verbal aggression without real-world risk. Learn from mistakes in a controlled environment—so you can succeed in the moments that matter.

Mental Conditioning for Real Pressure

Train your composure like a muscle. De-Escalate scenarios mimic the heat and unpredictability of conflict, helping you respond calmly when adrenaline spikes.

Train the Way You Fight

Real fights are unpredictable. With De-Escalate, you practice under pressure, review your performance, and grow more capable with every session.

Pick a Scenario

Choose from real-world verbal confrontations: someone getting aggressive in a parking lot, a drunk at a bar, or a heated dispute turning hostile.

Engage & Defuse

Use verbal jiu-jitsu to stay calm, set boundaries, and take control. The AI will test your resolve—mirror real escalation patterns—and respond to your tone.

Get Feedback & Improve

Immediately review what you said, how it landed, and what could've gone better. Then run it again and build true verbal resilience.

Simple Minute-Based Pricing

Choose your training intensity without long contracts or hidden fees — perfect for individuals building confidence and instructors training entire classes.

Free

New users trying verbal self-defense training

$0.00

per month

0 minutes/mo

  • 20 free minutes on signup to test your de-escalation skills
  • Access to basic confrontation training scenarios
  • Performance tracking and improvement tips
Most Popular

Starter

Self-defense students looking to build confidence

$19.00

per month

400 minutes/mo

  • Full access to all confrontation scenarios
  • Detailed performance analytics and verbal coaching tips
  • Progress tracking and confidence-building metrics
Best Value

Pro

Martial artists and security professionals

$99.00

per month

2000 minutes/mo

  • Priority access to new scenarios and features
  • Advanced coaching insights and personalized feedback
  • Export training history and performance reports

Team

Martial arts schools and security training teams

Custom

Custom Plan

  • Student management and training dashboards
  • Custom scenarios tailored to your training focus
  • Priority support and curriculum integration
  • Team progress tracking and instructor tools

What Self-Defense Experts Are Saying

Join the Private Beta

De-Escalate is currently in private beta, and we're rolling out access to new users in waves. Sign up below to join the waitlist and be among the first to master verbal self-defense with AI-powered confrontation training.

Common Questions

Is this app just for customer service?

Not at all. De-Escalate is built for anyone who wants to practice defusing conflict—including those learning or teaching self-defense.

Do I need to be a martial artist?

No. Verbal de-escalation is useful for anyone. Whether you're walking home late, teaching a class, or working in a high-stress job, these skills apply.

Can I use this with my students?

Absolutely. Many self-defense instructors use De-Escalate to supplement class material. It's a flexible tool for group or solo training.

Do I speak aloud or type?

Speak aloud using your microphone. This is verbal training—how you *say* things matters just as much as what you say.

Are the AI responses realistic?

Yes. Scenarios are trained on real-world confrontation patterns and the AI uses tone, threat, challenge, and withdrawal tactics just like real aggressors.